About Me

I’m Julie - Behaviour Specialist, communication educator, and paramedic of 24 years.

My career began in emergency medicine, where I spent thousands of hours observing human beings in the moments when masks fall away and real behaviour shows itself.

I noticed patterns no one ever talked about:

• Anger that was actually fear

• Withdrawal that was actually overwhelm

• People pleasing that was actually a survival strategy

• Conflict that was just two people feeling unheard

• Strong opinions masking fragile nervous systems

• Shutdowns that meant “I don’t feel safe”

What I saw again and again was this:

Most people aren’t “difficult.”
Their behaviour is just misunderstood.

That realisation became the foundation of my work today.

I now teach individuals, couples, and professionals how to:

• decode behaviour accurately

• understand what drives reactions

• listen beneath the surface

• communicate with clarity and compassion

• break the cycles that keep relationships — personal or professional — stuck

• build confidence through emotional understanding

My approach is bold, unapologetic, and grounded in both real-world experience and rigorous behavioural science. Blended with emotional intelligence, nervous-system awareness, and the human insight that only comes from being in the field for two decades. I’ve walked into thousands of lives. I’ve observed human behaviour in every situation. Along the way, I have studied hypnotherapy, systems theories, mentalisation, and emotional intelligence - learning the science and theories behind the patterns, the fears, and the truths beneath the surface.

Today, I help high-performing adults, executives, and leaders decode human behaviour, communicate with clarity, and act with confidence.

If you’re ready to see yourself and others more clearly
You’re exactly where you need to be.

“Clarity without cruelty. Authority without arrogance. Results without compromise. Confidence without ego. And compassion - just enough to keep things human.”